Their coded talk outside the party is mutually understood -- it doesn't
make sense
that he would turn her around, and make the move on her.  It should
be mutual.  Them mutually coming together.  If anything she should
make the move on him.  That he spins her around and makes the move on
her reinforces women-as-weaker sexual sterotypes.  


--

"Is this true?"
"No."

"I am tired of lies."

She is a fool.

It is everyone's 
right to do this, but really, isn't it better to keep it a secret?
Then you can be happy.  Why make yourself miserable making it all
public, fighting for the ideal, when it is just you? you never fight
a fight alone.  This is foolish.  You need the backing of others, the
recognition of others, to a) make it meaningful, and b) have any 
strength behind it.  There is power in numbers.  Fighting the fight
alone just makes you a martyr.  And I don't mean that in a "bad" way,
ideologically.  i mean it in the sense that it means you get snuffed,
or killed, or your ideology is pummelled into the ground until you have
nothing left of yourself.  Why do this?  Why make yourself a martyr
and you yourself are never happy?
 
Just keep it a secret and be happy.  I would. 

But of course, her making this speech is needed for the moral climax
of this episode, to make a point.  To explore what I'm suggesting, 
not only doesn't teach, but would go over the 47 minutes needed for
this episode.  i'm just saying, for the character's welfare, she 
should not have done this.